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•Tuesday, July 15, 2008
Back up your hard drive...
Back up ur hard drive... I have come to realize...well I've always known I was a "Back Up", "Insurance", "Wifey Material". I was reading
today (Which I visit everyday cause she is da coolest. Lol.) and realized that a lot of girls who were the tomboys, good girls, artsy girls, and vow to stay a virgin until married girls were and maybe still are considered a lot of guy's "Back ups". I for one am considered a "Back Up". For most of these girls and me including their guy friends and guys that they used to "talk too" but never committed too see them as "Back ups". These guys might not realize that we know this but it is very evident to us. As long as I can remember I was "the one" they could see marrying and having their children. But none of them would date me cause to them I was the one they wanted to treat right and marry so therefore if we did date and it didn't work out their "Back up" would no longer be existent. The same goes with the guys I used to "Talk too" but would never commit too me. These are the guy friends that I hear from every 2 to 3 months calling to see how I'm doing....and try to ease the question "Are you dating anyone?" without coming out and bluntly saying those words. In middle school I was never boy crazy even though I look back now and realize a lot of the boys I would draw tattoos for were crushing on me. I just thought they liked my art. Anyway, in high school I still wasn't boy crazy. I decided even when I was in middle school that I would never date "seriously" with anyone until I reached the age in which I was thinking about marriage. So in highschool I decided to just have fun (be a playa). I knew that there were boys who liked me but I would never give them the opportunity to take our friendship any further cause I wasn't looking for a serious relationship. My sister even told one guy friend after he approached her by asking if I would be down with becoming exclusive with him....her exact reply to him, "Jade is only gonna play you". Lol. My sister only told him the truth cause before him I had already left 2 guys in the dust with bruised hearts.
I'm not gonna lie. I do have "back ups" of my own. I think every woman has that man in the wings that would end things with his baby momma/ or dump his current "chick" to be with you. But for me I've decided to get rid of all my "Back ups" and just continue to be their homegirl for life without thinking ,"If it doesn't work out with__________ I still got _________".
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Hi Hi. I'm Jade.
Mississippi born and raised. I started blogging because of: boredom, creativity issues, and just wanting a place to vent my frustrations. My life is pretty boring despite I am a weirdo in many contexts of being a normal 20 something young woman.
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Resides in MD (for now)
Cant be stereotyped
Soon to be world traveler
Bachelor of Science in Physical Education
Loves all Animals
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