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•Thursday, August 21, 2008
Why do people lie to themselves?
Is it because we don't want to deal with the real world and have to confront issues and decisions that we don't want to make?
Everyone lies to themselves. Including me.
Whether it is about jobs, family, friends, or either myself people do not want to deal with conflict of the everyday life and just want to turn the switch off.
I've lied to myself many times when it comes to emotional feelings of regret and hurt. I put on the face of this hardcore rugged, nothing can hurt me persona for years. Even when people do upset me and make me sad I never confront them on it and just let it fall to the wayside because to me if someone knows your weaknesses they can use ur weaknesses against you. But for now on I will never let that happen again.
When your in a situation that involves other people's feelings in the decisions that you make many people usually base their decision on what would be best for that other person and tend to not consider what's going to best for themselves. I too am this way. I rarely am selfish and tend to be there for my friends whenever they need me. But I have go to realize as I have gotten older that I can't always put others' feelings and needs before my own. I have to come first and my decisions shouldn't be based on what will make him/her happy but will make me happy.
I reckon this blog is just a jumbled mess of stuff only meant to make since to me. :-)
♥ 11:21 AM
Hi Hi. I'm Jade.
Mississippi born and raised. I started blogging because of: boredom, creativity issues, and just wanting a place to vent my frustrations. My life is pretty boring despite I am a weirdo in many contexts of being a normal 20 something young woman.
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